From Overwhelm to Action — and Why Self-Care Is Part of the Plan

October 03, 20253 min read

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When I feel stuck or overwhelmed, I’ve learned to pause and ask myself:

“Is it that I don’t know the next step — or am I afraid of taking it?”

Most of the time, it’s one of those two.

And if it’s the first, I lean into my community — Masterminds, mentors, peers, friends, family — to help me see the next move. Because we’re not meant to figure everything out alone.

But if it’s the second… if the next step is unfamiliar or scary (hello, imposter syndrome!), then it’s about breathing through the fear and taking the first step anyway.

That’s what I did when I left the safety of my senior role in Marketing & Comms to launch Turas. It felt big. Risky. Unknown.

But once I registered my business and took that first step, each one after got easier — because clarity follows action.


🔥 Here’s the other piece of the puzzle no one talks about enough: Self-care is a must-have — not a luxury — for success.

As an Identity-Led Leadership Coach, I’ve seen time and time again that the leaders who thrive are the ones who give themselves space to refuel, reflect, and reset.

✅ When your mind is foggy, self-care clears the lens.

✅ When fear is loud, self-care turns the volume down.

✅ When you're stuck in ‘what now,’ self-care makes room for focus, gratitude, and momentum.

Just last week, I was facing a big, exciting, and slightly scary new growth phase in my business. Instead of pushing through and grinding harder, I took 30 minutes to walk along Wellington’s waterfront. I came back lighter, more present — and more grounded in what really matters.

As Tony Robbins says:

“You can’t feel fear and gratitude at the same time.”

And that’s the power of self-care. It fuels clarity and courage.

🧭Want help getting clear on what’s next?
Start with two complimentary tools designed to help you reconnect with what matters:

👉Take the Quiz: Discover Your True North
👉
Read the eBook: Find Your True North – Your First Step to Living Your Legacy

👉Read June’s Legacy Letter for a deeper dive into clarity, identity
and what's unfolding in Turas.


If you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or just tired of spinning your wheels, your next step might be getting strategic support AND giving yourself space to breathe.

That’s exactly what I’ve created in my Strategic Marketing Made Simple workshop:

🗓️ Next session: Tuesday, July 15, 2025 9.30am - 12.30 pm NZST

🕒 3 hours, high impact

📍 Delivered live, online

You’ll walk away with:

✔️ A clear profile of your ideal customer

✔️ A practical, streamlined Marketing strategy you can implement NOW

✔️ Tools that turn overwhelm into clarity from my 26 years in Marketing

PLUS a complimentary foundational class: Unlocking the Mysteries of Marketing for Business Growth

This workshop is designed with my Learn → Do → Review approach so you don’t just learn strategy, you apply it. Right then and there.

If you’re feeling foggy, stuck, or uncertain about how to stand out or grow in your Marketing, this is your next brave step.

And I’ll be right there with you.

Spots are limited Secure yours now

Breathe, reset, and take the step.

You've got this — and I’ve got your back.

With clarity and care,

Tapadh leibh

Who you are unlocks your extraordinary, every day.

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